Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Frances Edith Robinson Smilter with the following comment:
I am interested in the Bates and Cumming family histories. I am descended from the Bates family who ran the Old Hall Hotel,(see graves for Mary Bates and Robert Bates) but the Smilters married into the family.(and vice versa!) I have been to St John the Baptist and taken photos of (and left flowers at)the Bates family graves, but hadn't come across the Smilters' grave. My parents' generation could remember some contact with the Smilters.